Yes, I know this. I know that a woman has to make the decision to put herself last and her children first. Nobody can force motherhood on another person. It takes an softened heart, strong will, humility, selflessness and self sacrifice to be a mother. Having a baby does not a mother make. Nothing I can say or do will magically change this teenager into a full fledged mommy.
I can, however, sow seeds. I can put thoughts into her mind, be persistent in teaching my knowledge and try to convey the life changing metamorphosis that motherhood requires. Will she grasp these things and use them to guide her along the journey to motherhood? I don't know. It is sort of like I tell my husband about giving money to beggars. It is not our job to discern whether or not they will use the money to buy food or drugs. Our job is simple, to provide for the needy. Their resulting actions are of their own choosing and they will be accountable to God someday. The same can be said for this situation.
Whether or not A chooses to make the metamorphosis is up to her. I will do my best to guide her and encourage her. Ultimately, the choice is hers to make.
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Monday, November 24, 2008
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4 comments:
This is so awesome of you. You are very brave. (As well as "A".) I wish the best of luck to all involved :)
The new blog looks great and I am so proud to call you a friend!!
You're absolutely right... you can not make her a mother. But you can give her the tools and courage she will need along the way. And who better to do that then someone like you! I just think you're great! =)
Hi,
I came across your blog and instantly was hooked.
I am also a teen mom. I think I am one of the youngest I know. I became pregnant when I was 14 and had my son at 15. Luckily for my mom I was more mature than my years and understood what I was doing.
I am now 28 and now have a second child with the same daddy. I am MORE than thankful for what you are doing for A and would love to be able to do the same someday. There are SO many that need a mentor and I just had to tell you what a heroic thing it is that you are doing. It touches me more than you can imagine.
Kateedyd
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